Before learning how to date girls you have to learn how to talk to them and impress them and only then can you date them. You do not have to be a smooth talker, but you definitely have to learn how to communicate with them before you can expect any girl to want to spend time with you. There ahs to be some conversation between two people if they have to spend time together and get to know each other better. If you sit tongue tied and do not know what to say then your first date with her will be your last one. A good talker does not have to be a flirt who is trying to impress the women he meets, but a person who comes across as genuine and comfortable to be with. The conversation should show a genuine interest in the other person and should not be a self centered one. You should converse but also give the lady a chance to speak her mind and tell you all she wants to. Actually this is a much safer way to get around her as you can get all the information about her and also show her that you are interested in her.
Women enjoy going out with a man who thinks about their comfort and what they want to do. Many men only feel that what interests them will automatically interest the woman also, but this is far from the truth. You will have to cater to the lady's preferences until she wants to do something which you would like to do for a change! It is not that women are selfish, they are sensitive and if they feel the man is insensitive this puts them off. A man has to show his woman that he is caring and is interested in making her comfortable by taking care of her in every sense of the word.
There are women who want to date for the sake of company and may not be romantically inclined and as a man you will have to accept this if you want to meet her again, but if you have any romantic dreams then you better drop the lady. Women do believe in a platonic friendship which is often misleading to men, so wait and see the signs before you jump to conclusions. If she is interested in more than this, she will definitely hint at it or let you know after a few dates and when she is more comfortable with you. So do not hasten the wrong moves and if you are patient it will pay off.
Dates can be of many types, romantic dates, friendly dates and business dates. Do not mingle these dates and create problems for yourself. True a business date could turn into a friendly or romantic one, but let the lady lead you one before you take control of things. Women are good at hinting in a subtle way at what they want from you!
Finally, if you want to be the kind of guy that actually has so many girls interested in you then you're going to need a complete overhaul in your thinking, behavior, and perspective.
Can it be done? Yes, what you need to do is to learn the skills on how to meet, attract, and date the kinds of women that you have always wanted -and you don't need to be rich or handsome to do it!